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Do not cry please, dear ...

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Every new mom must have never experienced this. Babies screaming, while you're out of mind to calm. Hoping husband help? Well, not promises, deh. Patience ... Before you and your partner blame each other, there's one thing to remember: all newborn babies will experience periods of fussing during the first months of life, but can not explain the cause. "Crying does not reflect your expertise as a parent," said Marc Weissbluth, MD, author of Your Fussy Baby. "Crying is a universal behavior in various parts of the world. Like the saying goes: 'The birds are flying, babies crying yes'. "

Although deraian tears baby was perfectly normal, in practice it is not easy 'deal' with this. But there is one, the solution to your baby - and you - can get through these difficult times.

- Think of as 'singing' voice. Babies can not say hungry, thirsty or uncomfortable. One thing he could do to tell you is crying. So, relax. Think of it as an intimate call to indicate he needs you. Newborn baby cry during an average three hours a day, a peak occurred at week 6. At the age of three months, your baby's cry will be reduced to about one hour a day.

- Crying babies trigger the hormone prolactin, 'mothering hormone' that causes the drive to hold the baby and meet his needs. This will affect you for the quick action. No wonder if Mom would wake up naturally as the baby crying, even the doorbell, loud noisy songs, or other sounds could not wake him.

- Learn how to best soothe your baby. There are many ways to soothe baby's tears loose. "Marvel (three years) could just calm down when asked to tour around the complex by car. While his brother, Marcel (five years), just calm down when screwed VCD Teletubbies," the story of Regina Alexander Kelapa Gading, North Jakarta. Meanwhile, another baby probably just be quiet when placed in a cradle, or after dibedong. the dim lights, soft music, or remove a diaper is another method that has proven its success.

- Although the sound contradictory, adding more noise in the environment a baby who was crying can help to calm him down. "Carly was asleep when she heard the soft voices during the first six months of life," said Sally Maxson, mother of two children of the Chippewa, Pennsylvania. "We stayed lit a vacuum cleaner or hair dryer. That's all that can stop her crying. "

- Trying to hold various positions. Some babies are happiest being carried on the shoulders, while others like to be picked up at the forearm. You can also hum or sing while holding the baby tightly. Vibrations from your voice box would soothe him.

- Do not ignore your self. Once the baby is crying, the mother became worried, and the baby cried harder than ever. To break the chain, which you must find a way to calm yourself. "If you've had enough with the crying baby, I leave him at a parent or babysitter. Bathing water flow under the cold shower to make your mind back," Joyce's story. Have 'me time'. Stay doing your hobby can be fun. Exit the house for socializing. Confide in friends who just had a baby can lead you to the real world. Occasionally take the little evening walk with a stroller around the mall. Infants become more calm, because he enjoys every shocks that may arise, fresh air, plus the change in the atmosphere.

- Let her cry for a while - If you've tried all the tricks, but your baby is still crying and you're afraid to lose patience, put him in the crib or other safe place, and then go to another room. Letting a baby cry alone for a while not endangering kok!

No matter how frustrating your baby's cry, be patient ya! This will pass. After three months, the frequency of your baby's cry will be reduced and he was more easily understood. Soon, your baby will be chattering, make-bye kiss, or call you with the title "Mama". Happy, right?


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