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Early Childhood Education Success

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Early Childhood Education Success
Educating early childhood is much more difficult than in children who have entered the age of 5 years and over. This is because we and our children alike do not understand what the will of each because of limited communications. Therefore very frequently encountered errors in attitude, behavior and treatment of parent to child where it will not affect either the development of child mental kedepannya.Berikut between actual attitudes or inadequate treatment when applied to early childhood:
Coarse-Being
Rudeness is not recommended for children because children are very gentle soul. Suppose your baby's skin is very susceptible to benda2 rough because it could hurt the skin, as well as feelings.

-Reluctant to train children as early as possible with the letter hijaiyah (the Qur'an) is alif ba ta, letters and numbers 1,2,3 etc. abcd as early as possible. Month-old child is a child with huge potential to be able to absorb anything that can he heard. So parents should be diligent when it whispers and recite the three basic foundations of learning earlier. We ejakan always number 1 to 10, ff, ff abc and alif ba ta ff. So that in time he could talk and learn to be much easier for children to learn it because of something that already exists in the file memory. Like we learned that only repeats than we learn an entirely new, it is certainly much easier and faster if we just repeat. Not limited to three of these things, when the streets were no cars we mentioned the name of the object is repeated to him. Mudah2an So many things that will be in his memory at the moment studying at the school level will be.

Call Child-Serving Reluctant to Storytelling
Talk, dialogue or the story is very necessary for the development of child intelligence. Intelligence of children can be spurred by the willingness to think, then the parents must be diligent him thinking. At the moment we're with him we can ask for things that are around us, if he does not know us explain. So forth. The point we must bring the child to be critical from the outset. If she asks Probably the answer according to his ability to think as clearly, not by silencing the critical question of questions. So even if we asked for our kids to tell before bed, Tell me, mendongenglah for our children, while we cultivate the values of character for him. If told to insert teaching manners that we continue to cultivate since early childhood, then we hope our children will be children who were skilled in both.
-Allowing children in places where a crowd of adults
Shopping malls are the most common place in the family visit on holidays. In our opinion it could affect not good for the soul of the child because we get children to see all the luxuries in the display, making konsumtis spirited child. So go to the mall if there is one we need, not just a walk to spend time there.

-Reluctant to find the CD / VCD / quality books
Now this is a lot of tapes / books contain quality children's learning. So very many parents find child care spending by reason of saving the tapes when the budget expenditure for clothes shopping and the like berapun we will buy. Belikanlah child cassette / book quality, because we must admit a lot of new science that can be absorbed by children from there with the delivery of a very entertaining and fun. Believe we will see a good effect in time what's the point of view even if we are children age 2.3 years per month until we traded tapes / books. But the contents of tapes or books to be good and early childhood education because it would have bought a new doormat for the play continuously, once a hazard if the tapes contain violence ugly and played up to five times a day.

Rugged and Hard-Kata2
Children will be given it should be on avoiding if we do not want our children to emulate.

-Eating and Drinking While Standing
This is very trivial but including in the teaching of manners is very important. Often parents eat or drink something delicious, because it was fast, then drink while standing and even drinking from the pot directly. Do not be surprised if as a result our children will do it. How we feel if we were visiting our son suddenly turns out that in contributed tea while standing in front of the host.

-Allowing the child Jajan Child Full MSG / Vitsin
Now this very common food full of MSG. This is very dangerous at all for the intellectual development of children. Intelligence of children will be severely hampered by these foods. So as much as possible keep it away from the child must become accustomed to the food stations.

-Kid Child
Many parents, who liked to lie in order to simply mute the child or to children is not whining. For example when a child wants a big doll in the shop and then we'll answer payday, the payday when we should really buy him if we do not want in our inner child we've embedded that lied to them. And if we do it will often happen to any child resulting distrust our words and even more dangerous if the child becomes something that is naturally considered to lie and deceive eg brother to silence him by saying there are ghosts, etc..

Always Give Anything at Ask Children
It also includes actions that are not wise. There are times when parents say no to child requests. Demand is always full of attitude will give rise to underestimate the children. We better meet demand for selective in children. But we also must be able to give a logical reason to demand our children who can not fulfill.

-Authoritarian
Authoritarian in the sense that parents tend to impose any willingness, expectations or desires. Authoritarian attitude is not good because it will hit the soul of the child. Towards early childhood, this will be very suppress their feelings, while she too could not express his feelings. So the soul of the child will be very distressed by any of the following requested, desired, although his parents say the child is not much or even do not understand why he should run it. The best thing is to invite dialogue with the style of our children or with cerita2 a fun to drive children on what we want.

-Leaving the child in front of the TV much as you like.
Many of the parents today are much as you like a child let alone watch movies or favorite programs. So the boy was watching cartoons with asiknya from 8 am until 11 noon on the day of the week or on days off. This is very dangerous for mental and physical development of the child. The child will tend to be static way of thinking because it is not trained to think that usually there is in the process of talking or listening. And the less he talks the less brain work it will be futile potential golden period of brain development of children in the age vain dininya. It will be very important to control the time a child in front of the TV. Very unwise to let children much as you like in front of the TV was just on the grounds that children do not disturb our sleep or not to wander everywhere.

Play-Watching Event or Lagu2 Adult Children Together
Very much now acara2 who do not educate. And unfortunately a lot of parents, especially mothers who Accordingly fond of such events. So the mother who plays asiklah news gossip or a song of love-themed songs are loud, even though the child's early age when it was cool playing with him. So will terekamlah what he heard and what he saw at that time. So do not be surprised if the current three-year olds already know rock dangdut or know the latest gossip news. Very dangerous if the attitudes and words do not educate then followed by our little baby.

-Changing the lack of time with the Objects or Goods
This is usually encountered in older people who are always busy with his work. Early morning when the kids just got up the old man was neatly dressed in his work. At the time of leaving some parents asking what to ask to go home? "Then at that moment the child even mention any request. Once was the day after day, month after month and year after year. Parents give in and buy anything that seemed to ask the child can love in exchange for money at things and provide it. It would be more prudent to remain proportional to the demand for children. As for the lack of time we can maximize our time at leisure to devote full of affection.

-Be Friends Against Children
There are some parents are too exaggerated in attitude and playing with younger children. In the words joke and sometimes follow the child says and how to behave. Ana eg what to eat because so ana telong mention eggs, etc.. Thus even in a joking we follow whatever style of being a child. If this is passed then it will actually make it inhibited child development. If the child will say it more slowly can say it right. If the act we act as a friend then maybe this will cause lack of respect from the child. The best thing is a joke and not excessive with a child in jest.

Educating young children in general must be patient because we are not mutual willingness to understand what each one. So it is best to be as good and as smooth as possible to them because they are a fragile person who is still in great need of our assistance. Do not let the fragile personal mistake in educating us all wrong because I live it to the end we have to bear the consequences.


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